Showing posts with label motivate. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motivate. Show all posts
Tuesday, 3 January 2017
MINDSHIFT - MOTIVATIONAL VIDEO
Needing a little nudge in the right direction for 2017...7,825,815 views and counting. What do you think?
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Monday, 2 January 2017
7 Ways Successful People Relieve Stress
The difference between those who are successful and those who are not, is how they deal with stress.
Successful people know that when they are under a lot of pressure, the quality of their work suffers. So they have developed many ways to calm down to continue succeeding at whatever they do.
Here are seven ways these people relieve stress whenever it strikes.
1) They Look at the Big Picture
Successful people remind themselves how unimportant the event is in the big scheme of things.
If you look at obstacles that are on your way as opportunities for success, and tough assignments as chances for you to demonstrate to the world what you are made of, then negative feelings cannot influence your thoughts.
All you need to do is be confident in your ability to slay whatever trouble lies ahead of you. You are set to relieve stress and defeat it with this mindset.
2) They Can Laugh and Think Positively
When stress claws successful people, they allow themselves to realize how ridiculous the whole stressful situation is – and laugh.
They do NOT permit negativity to cloud their thinking. Research studies have shown that laughing whenever feeling assaulted by the demands of life stimulate blood circulation and enhance muscle relaxation, all of which help decrease many physical symptoms of stress.
The ability to laugh at tough situation also helped people to look at their own mistakes and failures with kindness and understanding. This allows them to be happier, more optimistic, and less depressed.
Most of us think that we need to be harsh on ourselves so as to be able to perform at our best. But this concept is totally wrong. You need to keep in mind that to err is human. Be merciful to your own self at all times.
3) They Play Brain Teasers and Puzzles
Successful people understand that they can relieve stress by challenging their brains.
There’s Sudoku, a brain teaser that causes people to use mathematics and logic to finish the square. This game has easy and impossibly hard levels and offers an unending supply of levels for you to try.
Putting together puzzles is another funny way you can challenge your brain and keep stress away. Soma cube is made of 27 cubes and has been split into seven entirely unique pieces. It’s a common puzzle that you can try. Soma cube is well-known for its use in psychological and intellectual experiments and to improve brain function.
The ability to complete this puzzle in tests gives remarkably accurate insight into an individual’s intelligence. Whether you use soma cube puzzle as a social activity or as a way to decompress for a day, the more you engage your brain in the puzzle to solve it, the less stressed you will feel.
4) They Rely on Routines
Most people know that the major causes of stress in their work life are things such as deadlines, bureaucracy, terrible bosses, heavy workloads, and more. Having to make too many decisions is surely a major cause of stress, but a majority of people often do not mention it.
Every time we make a decision, whether it is about hiring a new worker, when to finish particular tasks, or when to schedule a meeting with a client, we experience some tension in our brains that is stressful.
Successful people know the solution to this problem. They reduce the number of decisions they need to make by using routines. If there is anything these people have to do every day, they plan to do it at the same time daily.
You can have a routine for preparing for your day in the morning and for packing up to go home at a particular time every evening. By having simple routines, you drastically relieve stress levels.
5) They Add Place and Time to Their To-Do Lists
If you have a to-do list and just a single day passes by without any item getting checked off, you may surely get stressed up. What you need to do is get the things done at the right time. This calls for if-then planning, also known as implementation intentions planning.
If-then planning is a really powerful way to help you prevent stress. Approximately 200 research studies on everything from time management and negotiation, to exercise and diet, have indicated that making a decision in advance, when and where you will complete a particular task, can significantly increase your chances of actually completing it with less stress.
Successful people take the tasks on their to-do lists and add a specific time and place to each of them.
For example: instead of “I will call John,” they say, “If it is Wednesday afternoon, then I will call John.” If you plan this way, you will be able to seize the critical moment and make your calls at the most appropriate moments, even when you are busy attending to other things.
6) They Take About 5 Minutes to Do What They Like
Doing something interesting can help you relieve stress. The activity doesn’t matter, as long as it interests you.
A psychology study shows that this keeps you going despite fatigue and replenishes your energy as well. Before applying this strategy, it is important to understand that interesting and relaxing are NOT the same things, though they are not mutually exclusive.
Taking lunch break, for example, might be relaxing. However, unless you are eating together with some of your great friends or family members, or in a particular restaurant, the lunch break probably will not be interesting. For that matter, the event will not replenish your energy.
Also, interesting does not mean effortless. The same research cited above shows that interest replenishes energy even when the interesting task is difficult and requires a lot of effort. Thus you do not have to take it easy to replenish your energy.
7) They Think About the Progress They Have Already Made
In the face of stress, “small wins” keep successful people going. It is not often whether they have attained their goals, but the rate at which they are moving from the place they are today to the place they want to be, that determines how they feel.
It can be very helpful to take a moment to reflect on what you have achieved so farbefore allowing yourself to focus on the challenges that remain ahead.
Conclusion
You can use a few or all of these ways to calm down and feel the same benefits that successful people experience. Though there are many strategies, these seven are enough to help you avoid burn-out.
With the New Year, you might start by creating some if-then plans for dealing with your busy schedule. Do tell us if any of these tips helped you relieve stress on your way to more success.
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Friday, 25 November 2016
Is Happiness In Our Genes?
Here at Move we are always promoting a healthy and happy life. But what if you just find it that little bit harder to be happy than some of the people around you?
Modern living would have us believe that we are the masters of our destiny and that happiness is a choice - only you can control how happy a life you live as a result of the choices that you make.
However, what if how happy we are is actually more out of our control then we think? Research has suggested that feelings associated with happiness could actually be predisposed due to our genetics. The study, carried out by The University of California found a particular gene's link to optimism, self-esteem and "mastery," - three critical psychological resources for coping with stress and depression.
This isn't the only study to discover these kind of findings. A 2009 study also suggested that generic factors can account for 40-50% of feelings associated with happiness. The study, conducted on twins, appeared to show that personality traits, such as sociablity, optimism, and how hardworking you are, are especially heritable.
What does it all mean?
Although these studies go someway in suggesting that some people are genetically predisposed to be "happier" than others, it's important to remember the significance of environmental factors such as upbringing, relationships and friendships are also critical factors in someone's happiness levels. It's always worth remembering that if you're feeling blue, there are always things you can do to pick your mood up, such as exerciseand spending time with friends and family - and those are things that truly are in your control.
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Saturday, 19 November 2016
Chase Your Dreams
It always surprises me when people say that they can’t achieve their dreams. They can have a multitude of reasons why…they aren’t clever enough, strong enough, attractive enough, things like that don’t happen to me etc. I recently listened to a talk, where the speaker said they left these conversations there and moved on to someone else who did believe in themselves. I however like a challenge. So my challenge is that reading this article will change one persons mindset and self belief.
I have always been aware that I think about things differently to other people. Being diagnosed as dyslexic gave me a reason as to why this may be the case. It also meant I was born with a challenge ready to be faced. People sometimes say to me I can be very black and white. I don’t necessarily think this is a bad thing. The approach I take to life is very much sink or swim. I find simplifying it keeps me focused and keeps that fire burning inside me.
The reason I am always surprised that people fail to believe in themselves is simple. We are all born the same. Our life paths may take different turns, however for everyone there will be choices and opportunities in different forms. People seem to look at these entrepreneurs, inventors, business owners, celebrities etc, and think they don’t have what they have and can’t do or achieve what they do. Maybe it’s my unusual way of thinking but I always think:
If them, then why not me?
If you are lucky enough to have a dream, chase it and see where it can lead you.
Wednesday, 16 November 2016
The Path of Fearlessness
BY LEO BABAUTA
The more I work with people who are struggling with habits or life problems, the more I see how fears are holding us back.
Fears stop us from building healthy and productive habits. Fears cause us to procrastinate, keep us from finding work that is meaningful (or doing that work if we’ve found it). Fears keep us from finding friends or connecting with people on a deeper level. Fears keep us from being happy in each moment.
Underlying all of those fears are a few key fears:
- Fear of failure or being unprepared
- Fear of uncertainty
- Fear of being inadequate or being rejected
The two key fears are the fears of uncertainty and not being good enough, and in my experience, they’re both the same thing. We’re afraid of the uncertain future (and uncertain situations) because we don’t think we’re good enough to handle whatever might come out of the chaos.
These two fears (uncertainty and inadequacy) affect our lives in so many ways, and yet we rarely face them. We don’t want to feel these fears, so we run. We distract ourselves. We keep busy instead of being still to feel them. We find comfort in food and smoking and alcohol and TV.
In the end, the running doesn’t work, but only makes things worse.
There’s an alternative: the Path of Fearlessness.
Three Keys to Developing Fearlessness
What would our lives be like if we didn’t have fear holding us back?
We might find the freedom and joy that comes in being present with each moment.
We might find the underlying goodness that’s always there in each of us.
We might be able to finally live the lives we’ve always wanted to live.
So how do we walk this Path of Fearlessness?
Three practices to work with:
- Facing the fear mindfully. The truth is, we rarely allow ourselves to feel our fears. We run from them, pretend they aren’t there, distract ourselves, lash out at others, trying to find control. But we don’t even admit we have these fears, most of the time, let alone actually allow ourselves to feel them. So the practice is to just sit there when you notice yourself feeling any fear, and see if you can stay with it for awhile. Don’t stay with the story about the fear in your head, but rather how it feels in your body. See that it is stressful or painful or uncomfortable. Notice the particular physical feeling of this fear, this time. See if it changes. See what you can learn about it. See if you can be compassionate with it.
- Seeing your underlying goodness. As we sit in meditation, we can see that this moment is actually pretty wonderful. And this moment includes ourselves. We are part of the unconditional goodness of every single moment, and if we sit still we can start to feel that. There is goodness in our hearts, all the time, if we allow ourselves to feel it. There is the ability to appreciate and wonder, to feel and to love, to be present and to be grateful. Start to appreciate this, and you’ll start to develop confidence that you’ll be OK, even in uncertainty, even if you’re being judged, even if you put yourself out there with vulnerability.
- Embracing the joy of groundlessness. Uncertainty is scary because we don’t like the feeling of not having stable ground under our feet. We want certainty, control, stability, permanence … but life is filled with uncertainty, impermanence, shakiness, chaos. This causes the fear. Instead, we can start to embrace this uncertainty, see the beauty in impermanence, see the positivity of groundlessness. This uncertainty means we don’t know what will happen, which means we can be surprised by every moment! We can be filled with curiosity about what will emerge. We can reinvent ourselves each moment, because nothing is set, nothing is determined. There is joy in this groundlessness, if we embrace it.
No, these are not easy practices. But you can practice with them right now, and set aside a few minutes each morning to practice. You’ll see your confidence emerge, your fears dissipate a bit, your ability to appreciate each moment and yourself grow.
The Path of Fearlessness is one of mindfulness, of daily practice, and of finding the courage to face and push past the fears into joy.
Wednesday, 9 November 2016
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